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Date tripper
Toying with the idea of having a fling? Don’t step into the fast dating world without these handy tips. by Kevin Lobo
Characters such as Charlie Harper from Two and a Half Men, who get women at the drop of a hat, and Barney Stinson, who made sleeping with the opposite sex an art form in How I Met Your Mother, have become legendary. But having them as your role model for relationships in the real world can be quite disastrous, even if you are looking…
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It ultimately boils down to you affecting their self-esteem.
Move On:
Focus on what was good about the relationship. Be grateful.
However when it is no longer bringing you any positive feelings or vibrations, it is best to let go, cut your losses and move on. Every relationship has its seasons and phases. The only thing that is constant in life is change. Pick up the pieces, look ahead, live in the present and let go of the past.
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Hook, Line and Sinker - NLP Tips on how to approach women - Featured in the Mirror - 17th May 2011 Featured
Hook, Line & Sinker
Too scared to approach women at a bar? Life Coach Malti Bhojwani shares secrets on how to jumpstart your love life using the behavioural science, Neuro-Lingustic Programming with Kevin Lobo.
If you’re a single man, where do you meet new people? Say you catch the eye of an attractive woman at a bar, how do you approach her? Most Indian women have been conditioned to believe that it’s good to seem unapproachable and it gets even worse at a bar where they are bound to…
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http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/fitness/Weight-gain-habits-to-avoid/articleshow/9160685.cms
Habits can't be broken, they need to be replaced. Indulging in a chocolate cake once in a while or having a day on the couch with your chips or pakodas is not going to make you unfit, however doing it every single day, will! Here are some weight gain habits to look out for:
Lack of sleep may be making you fat. According to studies, partial sleep deprivation slows down your metabolism by 5-20% and alters your level of hunger hormones, making you hungrier all day…
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Life Coach Malti Bhojwani concludes, When couple get into a marriage they should walk into it with their eyes open, knowing what to expect. It's best to discuss deal breakers (and non-negotiables) early on rather than have a broken marriage.
Deal-Breakers and Non-Negotiables need to be discussed before tying the knot. Life Coach Malti Bhojwani "If you're not sure how to identify the non-negotiables, ask yourself this question: If this behavior never changed, could I live with it?" If your answer is "no"....then this is a non-negotiable.
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Jumpstart your love life
By Sayoni Sinha - featuring Malti Bhojwani - | Yahoo India – Fri, Jul 15, 2011 6:33 PM IST
You have just been introduced to this gorgeous cousin of your friend. She seems friendly and you want to ask her out for coffee. "Be cautious in your approach as most women have been trained, especially in India to treat any approach firstly with dismissal," says Life coach Malti Bhojwani as she takes you through a scientific way of approaching women.
A behavioural…
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How posture affects your looks
When you have good posture, you walk with more ease and grace. Think of all the beautiful divas you see on the red carpet and the silver screen, boasting long lean necklines, head held straight, shoulders square, not shrugging up or slumped down.
Tummy tucked in, back slightly arched, this automatically gives you a tummy tuck, boob-job and leaner waist. Instantly you will feel and project an air of confidence and of being alert.
Just by standing or sitting up straight, you change your physiology…
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“Once you make a decision, the Universe magically rearranges everything to make it all happen for you,” says Malti Bhojwani. Samreen Samad finds out more about India’s first life coach
Haven’t heard of the term ‘life coach’? You may liken it to being a shrink, therapist or consultant. But it’s a lot more than that. Malti Bhojwani, a renowned life coach, has worked in Madrid, Jakarta and Sydney. She now comes to India to help people achieve their goals. Read to find out more about her and her job……
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Your body image is in your head and not your body. There have been many large movements internationally to help people re-learn that a great body image is not about having a stereotypically thin body or a six-pack. Sure if that is really what you are striving towards for yourself, then I believe that you can achieve that too, but whatever you look like on the outside, the true conquering of your self esteem and body image is in the way you think and talk to yourself and in how…
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Seeing Progress
It’s important to educate yourself before being successful at anything. There are two types of motivation: 'towards' and 'away from'. The former involves motivating oneself to move towards a desirable place, while the latter involves situations where one is desperate to distance oneself from, or get ‘away from’ an undesirable place. For example, trying to work towards a promotion would be ‘towards’, and attempting to quit smoking or lose weight would be ‘away from’ motivation.
Both these techniques work, but 'towards' motivation lasts longer and…
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Malti Bhojwani is a experienced, certified, and fully trained life coach who offers her services at Multi Coaching International. She's helped scores of corporates, educational institutes, and individuals better themselves using her unique coaching techniques. She's also on Guylife's expert panel; begin the process of self-improvement by asking her a question.
If you missed part 1 of her series, read that first before you proceed to the rest of Malti's NLP/life-coaching tools to use to keep the woman in your life happy and content on a regular…
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Malti Bhojwani is a experienced, certified, and fully trained life coach who offers her services at Multi Coaching International. She's helped scores of corporates, educational institutes, and individuals better themselves using her unique coaching techniques.
She's also on Guylife's expert panel; begin the process of self-improvement by asking her a question.
So you have been together for a while, and when you first got together everything was amazing. Fireworks! What can you do to still keep her as happy and totally into you as she first was?…
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Kevin Lobo speaks to Life Coaches including Malti Bhojwani after the terror blasts in Mumbai.
Defuse the stress bomb
Getting inundated with information about the terror attacks could have affected you. We get experts to help you spot symptoms of having experienced terror, and how to rectify it
Even if you weren't physically affected by the terror attacks yesterday, just living in Mumbai, watching the gruesome images on TV or being scared for the wellbeing of your loved ones could have affected you psychologically. Stress can manifest…
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Malti Bhojwani (not pictured above) is an experienced, certified, and fully trained life coach who offers her services at Multi Coaching International. She's helped scores of corporates, educational institutes, and individuals better themselves using her unique coaching techniques. She's also on Guylife's expert panel; begin the process of self-improvement by asking her a question.
I am not an expert on tragedy, thankfully. During 26/11, I was still in Australia and the Mumbai Terror attacks were merely horrible news on TV. My daughter and I were riveted to CNN…
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Multi Coaching International is proud to launch our latest service: Dream Interpretations by Simran M.
She uses her intuitive, compassionate nature combined with her channelled skill to help extract and understand the meanings of dreams. Dreams reveal to us our thought processes and help us to get insights on our goals, our attitudes and beliefs and the way we see ourselves. Dreams show us the way through to our growth and transformation in all areas of our life – be it relationships or challenges we face.
“The future belongs to…
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My first blog!
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In case you missed part 1 of her series, read that first before you proceed to the rest of Malti's tried-and-tested tips on how to motivate yourself.
Getting Uncomfortable to Get Ahead
We all have excuses and reasons to feel "out of it" some days. We are affected by our moods, the weather, the tide, the moon's phases, planet alignments, what we ate or drank that day, whether we heard from the girl we’re infatuated with, our weight, the stock market, the traffic or even a pimple!…
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Great leaders can enthuse others to work well and strive for a common goal. They are motivators who have a compelling desire that they want to fulfill. They also have a solid belief that they can make things happen. They inspire their team to take effective action, and they also have the iron will to see it through. A great leader recognizes every individual's need to take ownership of their role and responsibility.
-Inspired by Kelly Poulous of AsiaWorks--the powerful self actualization training that I was involved with…
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In the course of my life coaching career, one of the most common issues clients have is the desire to get ahead at work. Here are five methods that will guarantee success in the workplace.
1. Set Goals
Yes, set goals that will enhance your performance at work and the productivity of your team or the people you work with. Declare these goals to the people who you feel will support you. Take credit whenever it's due. Don’t feel shy to put your name on a project when you…
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When it comes to approaching negotiations, think win-win. Negotiations only work when both parties feel like they are getting their needs fulfilled and we’re here to help you get started with the following pointers.
Show Appreciation
Look for common interests between yourself and the people you are negotiating with. It could be anything: kids, sports, authors, cities, drinks.
Once you’ve established this, they become your partners and can relate to you, which makes it easier to be on the same side as them. You are not selling them something…
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Oye Baby - Rhea Dhanbhoora & Samreen Samad tell you what you can do to prepare yourself for the catc
Life Coach Malti Bhojwani gives us a few suggestions to help us stay more secure:
http://www.afternoondc.in/womens-world/oye-baby/article_32206
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We all regret some of the choices we made, the opportunities we missed or the things that didn’t go our way. But the important thing is to realise that holding on to such regrets can immobilise us.
Regret holds us back
The most useful perspective we can have about our regrets is to look at them as lessons and to trust that we always chose the best option available at that time.
When we start to doubt and question our decisions of the past, it’s a short step to second-guessing…
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Dating With Dignity - Part 1
How to Get Back to Dating Again after a Break up of a Long Relationship
Excerpts of this was featured in
The Times of India and The Mumbai Mirror on the 9th of November 2011 written by Kevin Lobo
After a long relationship and having a lifestyle of always socializing as a couple with couples, sex on tap if wanted, not having to go out looking for intimacy, it can be daunting, almost to get back in, but if you have a positive and…
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Your words’ worth
There are a thousand books on body language and another thousand on how to get ahead in your career; both of them consciously or subconsciously use Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). A theory expounded by John Grinder and Richard Brandler in the '70s, NLP describes the fundamental dynamics between mind (neuro) and language (linguistic) and how their interplay affects our body and behaviour (programming). NLP is a science that has hundreds of techniques that can be used to better your personal and social skills, among other things. Life coach…
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Experiencing hot and cold in your relationship? Is it really still a relationship? Be honest with yourself. You are feeling uncomfortable in your stomach, you are just not feeling like the confident, independent woman you used to be, your instincts are telling you loud and clear, but you don’t want to listen.
Why? You invested time, emotion and hope into this. How can you just give up, maybe he needs time? Psychologically it is normal to delay and postpone the undesirable inevitable.
People treat you exactly the way you…
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Does everyone dream? by Simran M - Why Life Coach Malti endorses and encourages recalling your dreams
To accomplish great things, we must dream as well as act - Anatole France
In my years of life coaching and personal development, I have learned that so much of how we observe our world and make our decisions are driven by our subconscious. One of the most accessible methods to tap into this subconscious is through our dreams. Simran has interpreted many many months of my lucid dreams and the culmination of…
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No one needs a coach to live an ordinary life, but to have an extraordinary 2011....
September already. Do you remember the visions and goals you had set in January for this year? Are you there yet? Less than 4 months to go and MCI has an opening for only 12 more clients to work with this year. Book your 1 week trial for USD180 to get started or if you are ready and pumping, and have no doubt or hesitation, register for our 12 week program and change the…
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Why work with Malti in 2012?
Malti is 40 and a mother of a beautiful well-balanced 20 year old daughter, despite her young divorce, she’s an experienced and certified coach and NLP practitioner. (Neuro Linguistic Programming) She is a pure coach, in that she won’t advise you, hold hierarchy, judgment or prescribe medication. She is not a psychologist, counselor or therapist and you don’t have to have issues and problems to work with a coach, just strong desires or goals.
As a lifelong learner herself on the path of Mastery…
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As you know, most things that you do once in a while will not really affect your life or your health in an impactful way, it is what you do regularly that will. The results we have is a sum total of the habits we follow. We each have 24 hours yet some of us manage to include more empowering and healthy habits than others, this is not good or bad, it is just about what you really want and your priorities. Having to juggle family, work, home, friends and so many…
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As human beings, we spend one-third of our lives sleeping. This one-third is intricately connected to the other two-thirds, as dreams are the bridge between our conscious mind and our Higher Self.
Dreams are a storehouse of guidance and knowledge. They give us insight regarding:
Ø Our thought processes - how we view a certain situation
Ø Our attitudes and beliefs - what we actually believe to be true about our lives and ourselves. This may be in total contrast to what we think to be true in waking life.…
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Meditation has many connotations and some of them may trigger different reactions from all of us. When I was younger, I thought it was the most boring thing anyone could indulge in and I conjured up an image of bearded yogis up in the Himalayas who starved and smelled. Today however, thanks to the holistic awareness, movements towards personal development and the amalgamation of Eastern and Western thoughts becoming more and more popular, meditation has taken on a more marketable name.
I meditate and in my personal experience, I call…
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7 Deadly Sins – Which one is your saviour from the others? By Malti Bhojwani
Yes they are sins when viewed independently and the path to spiritual enlightenment would require that we shed ourselves of all sins and embody the polar opposite of the sin.
So what are they? Traditionally, they are:
Vanity (Pride), Greed (Selfishness), Gluttony, Envy, Lust, Sloth (Laziness), Wrath (Anger)
In my opinion 2 of these sins are actually great to have as long as they are in moderation and directed to the…
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If I am not for myself, who will be for me?
If I am not for others, what am I?
And if not now, when? Rabii Hillel
Now is the time. Seize it, Claim it!
Dear coachees,
As the new year 2012 unfolds, I have been reflecting on how life has been in the year just passed and in the anticipation of what is possible in the new year. I am excited and very grateful for all the new opportunities and the doors that have opened up. I am writing to…
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Nurturing relationships across oceans is quite the test of affection. Here are a few tips to ensure you don't drown along the way
The key to a healthy relationship - communication, intimacy and the joy of each other's company - go for a toss when distance comes into play. Whether your girlfriend has gone away to study further or you have been posted for a job abroad, don't condemn your love life to George Clooney's state in Up in the Air just yet. While John Denver sounds like he is going…
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Malti Bhojwani is the founder of Multi Coaching International, a certified and experienced life coach, NLP practitioner (Neuro Linguistic Programming), workshop leader and published author. She mainly coaches by phone where her clients have lost weight, found partners, gotten over past relationships and changed their lives using her skills and powerful exercises.
Be Patient
Zahira (name changed) asks,
I met a guy on Shaadi.com and we've been in touch for almost a year and a half. I'm very anxious to meet the guy but he doesn't seem to be…
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Centering
When you can find your center, the center of your body, your thoughts and emotions and your language, you can revolve around your own axis. When you revolve your life on someone outside of you, you lose your own alignment.
Just as the earth revolves around its own axis daily and through this eternal gentle revolving, it also revolves around the sun, if you don’t find your own axis and you don’t gently revolve around it, you cannot be for anyone. – Malti Bhojwani - 2012
If I am…
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Get Better In 2012 - How to: Have Better Sex [Part 2] by Malti Bhojwani for GuyLife - Times Of India
Here at Guylife, we are firm believers in the fact that new years bring with them the opportunity to make fresh starts. That's why we're launching a series called Get Better in 2012, featuring tips to help you get smarter, fitter, and more on top of your game than ever before. Like us on Facebook to get all these posts directly on your news feed!
Malti Bhojwani is a certified life coach who offers her services at Multi Coaching International.
This is part two of the article and it…
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